Globalization is the interdependence of people, ideas, culture, technology, trade, and communication around the world. It is very important and essential to have the flexibility and resilience to adopt and follow each other's positive attributes and values. One other aspect of modernization belongs to destroying one's own culture and beliefs in the name of globalization and that's what happening in our country. The blow of these issues and events is faster than the blow of volcano. The lava of modern culture and openness is now destroying the Vasudev Kutumbkum image of Indian Heritage. The era of modernization and globalization has been rapidly brainwashing the mindset of today's Indian youth. As India is getting modern day by day and transforming from a developing nation towards developed nation our youth is also developing in all sphere of there life. Today's youth is more open, fast, bold, aggressive, fashionable and interactive. Loving relations are taking place very frequently. It takes few weeks or a month to establish a relation among boys and girls which is called couples (girlfriend/boyfriend). One of the main cause of these relations is affectionable, lusty, vulgar and tiny apparels.
Fashion!I criticize the wrong meaning of fashion. Do people think fashion is something that changes according to the season of the year? Do they really want to show off their dresses, their jewellery and their collection of shoes in the name of fashion? Some people believe that 'fashion' is everything. These foolish people don't even know what the cost is being paid by there parent or loved ones for their impossible dreams: luxury, beauty, power and fame. How ridiculous! how perverse is that. Father works overtime to be able to buy to his son the latest trainers because of his son doesn't have a pair, he'll be ostracized at school. The wife weeps in silence because her friends have designer clothes and she has no money. their adolescent children, instead of learning the real values of faith and hope, dream only of becoming singers or movie stars. girls in provincial towns lose any real sense of themselves and start to think of going to the big city, prepared to do anything, absolutely anything, to get a particular piece of jewellery. I tries to keep thinking but it seems to be out of my mind's reach and the only एक्ष्प्लनतिओन which I could extract is; that's why Buddha says life is suffering. Even though I don't even know whether life is suffering or Buddha is suffering.
The girls who belongs to the superclass, speak soften English, listen only Hollywood songs they feel themselves to be queen of the world, they never looked at anyone else. such women always avoid looking at what other people are wearing because, even if their own clothes and accessories have cost them a fortune, the number of diamonds or a particularly exclusive outfit worn by someone else might make them feel depressed or bad-tempered or inferior. They are simply denying the saying of Swami Vivekananda which he said during his USA visit: "In your country (USA) a person can be judged by the quality of clothes which he or she is wearing, but in our Country (India) a person is judged by the quality of his words and character." Over the last few years I have noticed one other thing: the mobile phone. The most important item of clothing. Today it is essential to be receiving a constant stream of messages or calls to be prepared to interrupt any conversation in order to answer a call that was not in the least urgent, to stand keying in endless texts via an SMS. They had all forgotten that these initials mean Short Message Service and instead used the key pad as if it were a typewriter. They write things that take five minutes to be written down and only ten seconds to be spoken, I don't know why but that's the way world is.
Our boys are perfect in the art of Samozashita Bez Orujiya, or Sambo as it is better known among Russians, is the art of killing swiftly with one's bare hands, without the victim realizing what is happening. The perfect moves of these types are: "Good morning, my love, I woke up thinking about you and I'm so glad to have such a beautiful and lovely girl in my life."
Let me tell you something very interesting about Frogs: various biological studies have shown that if a frog is placed in a container along with water from its own pond, it will remain there, utterly still, while the water is slowly heated up, the frog doesn't react to the gradual increase in temperature, to the changes in its environment, and when the water reaches boiling point, the frog dies, fat and happy. On the other hand, if a frog is thrown into a container full of already boiling water, it will jump straight out again, scalded but alive!Today's boys and girls are like that boiled frog. They fall in relationships very early and vice-versa breakups. They don't quite see what these relations have to do with the destruction of their world and character. They don't even notice the changes. They thought everything would be fine, that the bad things would just go away, that it was just a matter of time. Their tears have no meaning or value, they are like the tears in the rain. They din't even know that a man is liked by his future and a women by her past. They don't realise that life sometimes separates people so that they can realise how much they mean to each other.
A modern girl/boy is expected to have a very lucrative track record of his/her past affairs. one should be experienced enough to handle these relationship because the attrition rate this sector carries is higher than insurance sector. So in nutshell we can say that Breakups become very trendy and frequent. Modern youth is very fascinating in constructing the chain of boyfriends and girlfriends till the stage of marriage or afterwards also. Today's youth specially girls pretending to be younger than they are, smile at people who loathe and give them dirty look, feigning an interest in people who bore them, saying 'I love you' without a thought for the consequences, or stabbing in the back the friend who once helped you out, but who has now become an undesirable rival. The only reward they want is Fame, Glory, Glamour. It is Visibility! that is required. They always talk in riddles.The biggest symbol of these personalities are there vague statement written on social networking sites. Thanks to Facebook to easily founded these kind of people.
The attrition rate of this sector or failure of loving relationship or breakups is directly proportional to violation rate. And the victims of these violations are only the chromosome Y (girls) and Delhi has secured the very first position in that. We have a number of jewel in the pocket of our nation and one out of them is described below:
According to the study of United Nation's population index: "In India a women is violated on every 26th minute, a women is kidnapped on every 43rd minute, a women is the victim of raped on every 34th minute, a women is burned on every 93rd minute.
Now the question arises is what is the zenith of these violations and relationships. Will our youth continue to blindly follow the western style of loving relationship? will the incidences and evidences of these violations and kidnapping sustain? Will the stage of these breakups continue till the break fail stage. Will our youth marry with two or three person as like western people? No! we can't even think above that stage.This is just a beginning.
A lot of things have written about that matter. A lot of things have spoken about that matter. A lot of things have seen about that matter. But it is not sufficient to see, write and speak. The need to reach the root cause of this matter. I feel said! infect very sad when I see people in their breakup stage. We need revolution to end this foundation stone of breakups. Let us start it from ourselves from today itself. Here I'd like to distinguish clearcut differece between our culture and other's culture.
भारतीय संस्कृति तो वो संस्कृति है जहाँ हमारी वीर बाला बछेन्द्रीपाल जो की सागरमाथा (एवेरेस्ट) पर पहुंचकर पहले देवी को सिन्दूर और अक्षत चढ़ाती है और फिर पताका फेहराती है ताकि पश्चिम और पूरब की संस्कृति का वह फर्क स्पष्ट हो जिसमे एक पृकृति पर विजय पाने का दावा करती है और दूसरी पृकृति की पूजक है !
Our relationship should be as strong as rocks. Our wishes should be as like as spewing volcano. Our mutual understanding should be as healthy as we have with our best friends. Our hearts should be as associated as Lord Krishna and Radha ( प्रेम पंथ का पेंदा(पलड़ा) ही न्यारो, केय जाने वृषभान दुलारी, केए जाने ये कानर कारो). Means O Lord we the ordinary people can't know that which side of love is heavier than that of other.This could only be known by either Daughter of Vrishbhaanujaa: Radha or Son of Nandbaba: Krishna We should Inspire from the very first love story of the world Krishna and Radha. Though they never married to each other but has anyone heard about their breakup?
तीर खाने की हवस है तो जिगर पैदा कर!
सरफरोशी की गर तमन्ना है तो सर पैदा कर!!
यहाँ कौन सी जगह है जहाँ जलवा -ए-माशूक नही!
शौके दीदार अगर है तो नज़र पैदा कर!!
Who says we aren't capable of deciding what we want to do in life. The only solution of these relationships is we should chose our partner on the basis of his/her character, thinking pattern, sacrifice, mutual understanding, and Love only. I think Love don't have any other solution. The only solution of Love which exist under this globe is: Love.
In Search of Tamanna!.............(मै साँसों से लिखता जाऊ, वो साँसों से पढ़ती जाये)
